别再说合不合适

不管你有没有男朋友，有没有女朋友，都过来把它读完，写的真是那么回事

你发觉了吗？

爱的感觉，总是在一开始觉得很甜蜜.
总觉得多一个人陪、多一个人帮你分担，
你终於不再孤单了，至少有一个人想著你、
恋著你，不论做什么事情，
只要能一起，就是好的....

但是慢慢的，随著彼此的认识愈深，
你开始发现了对方的缺点，
於是问题一个接著一个发生，
你开始烦、累，甚至想要逃避，
有人说爱情就像在捡石头，
总想捡到一个适合自己的，
但是你又如何知道什么时候能够捡到呢？
他/她适合你，那你又适合他/她吗?

其实，爱情就像磨石子一样，
或许刚捡到的时候，你不是那么的满意，　
但是记住人是有弹性的，
很多事情是可以改变的，
只要你有心、有勇气，
与其到处去捡未知的石头，还不如好好的将自己已经拥有的石头磨亮，你开始磨了吗？
很多人以为是因为感情淡了，
所以人才会变得懒惰。
错！
其实是人先被惰性征服，
所以感情才会变淡的。



在某个聚餐的场合，
有人提议多吃点虾对身体好，这时候有个中年男人忽然说「十年前，当我老婆还是我的女朋友的时候,她说要吃十只虾，我就剥二十只给她！现在，如果她要我帮她剥虾壳，开玩笑！我连帮她脱衣服都没兴趣了，还剥虾壳咧！」
听到了吗？明白了吗？

难怪越来越多人只想要谈一辈子的恋爱，
却迟迟不肯走入婚姻。
因为，婚姻容易让人变得懒惰。

如果每个人都
懒得讲话、
懒得倾听、
懒得制造惊喜、
懒得温柔体贴，
那么夫妻或是情人之间，
又怎么会不渐行渐远渐无声呢？


*所以请记住：
有活力的爱情，
是需要适度殷勤灌溉的，
谈恋爱，更是不可以偷懒的喔！

有一对情侣，相约下班後去用餐、逛街，
可是女孩因为公司会议而延误了，
当她冒著雨赶到的时候已经迟到了30多分钟，
他的男朋友很不高兴的说：
你每次都这样，现在我甚么心情也没了，
我以後再也不会等你了！
刹那间，女孩终於决堤崩溃了，
她心里在想：或许，他们再也没有未来了

同样的在同一个地点，另一对情侣也面临同样的处境；
女孩赶到的时候也迟到了半个钟头，
他的男朋友说：「我想你一定忙坏了吧！」接著他为女孩拭去脸上的雨水，并且脱去外套盖在女孩身上，
此刻，女孩流泪了
但是流过她脸颊的泪却是温馨的。



你体会到了吗？
其实爱、恨往往只是在我们的一念之间！
爱不仅要懂得宽容更要及时，
很多事可能只是在於你心境的转变罢了！
懂了吗？
当有个人爱上你，而你也觉得他不错。
那并不代表你会选择他。
我们总说：「我要找一个自己很爱很爱的人，才会谈恋爱。」
但是当对方问你，怎样才算是很爱很爱的时候，
你却无法回答他，因为你自己也不知道。
没错，我们总是以为，我们会找到一个自己很爱很爱的人。可是後来，当我们猛然回首，我们才会发觉自己曾经多么天真。假如从来没有开始，你怎么知道自己会不会很爱很爱那个人呢？其实，很爱很爱的感觉，是要在一起经历了许多事情之後才会发现的。或许每个人都希望能够找到自己心目中百分之百的伴侣，但是你有没有想过『在你身边会不会早已经有人默默对你付出很久了，只是你没发觉而已呢？』所以，还是仔细看看身边的人吧！他或许已经等你很久了

当你爱一个人的时候，爱到八分绝对刚刚好。所有的期待和希望都只有七八分；剩下两三分用来爱自己。如果你还继续爱得更多，很可能会给对方沉重的压力，让彼此喘不过气来，
完全丧失了爱情的乐趣。

所以请记住，
喝酒不要超过六分醉，
吃饭不要超过七分饱，

爱一个人不要超过八分

　　

如果你也正在为爱迷惘，或许下面这段话可以给你一些

启示：

　　

爱一个人，要了解，也要开解；

　　要道歉，也要道谢；

　　要认错，也要改错；

　　要体贴，也要体谅；

　　是接受，而不是忍受；

　　是宽容，而不是纵容；

　　是支持，而不是支配；

　　是慰问，而不是质问；

　　是倾诉，而不是控诉；

　　是难忘，而不是遗忘；

　　是彼此交流，而不是凡事交代；

　　是为对方默默祈求，

　　而不是向对方诸多要求；

　　可以浪漫，但不要浪费；

　　

　　 `*不要随便牵手，

　　 `*更不要随便放手

我讨厌自私的你！
一点也不喜欢！！

话总说不清楚， 该怎么明了？

旧账总翻不完，是谁在无理取闹？

爱情来不及变老，就葬送在峰火的玩笑。

没有你在身边，我要过得更好！

Fine!!!

Not going to talk to you anymore!!

HMPHHHH

再见。。

不，因该是 ‘不要再见’！！

Assignments have been driving me crazy these few days..
Don't really get enough sleep everyday..
The worst part is when there are 2 assignments due on the same day..
And yeah.. ML assignment 2 and the IDM video due on the same day, which is yesterday (Friday)..
As you can guess, I didn't sleep the whole night on Thursday!!!
Editing video was fun.. Especially insert and edit all the sound tracks..
I don't know why, it just make me super hyper at that moment.
But you know what? I was so smart that I didnt save it and the whole thing just gone like tht.
No choice, have to do everything again!!! Wasted my time.. Ishhh
And yeah.. I can still very semangat the whole day even though didnt sleep the whole night.. =)

Slept around 12am last night, and woke up around 5pm!!!!
I know you will sure say I am a pig. yes.. I am!! ahahhahaah
I think I can sleep longer if my phone doesn't ring at the time.. ahhaha

Anyway.. I felt relax abit now.. Finally submitted the ML and the IDM video..
Phew.. I shall just enjoy this weekend before those assignments come in.. :P

到底是要有远远看你  还是靠近一点更好

我不确定你是不是  我一直要找的主角

I am craving for cheese cake now!!
CHEESE CAKE!!!! T.T

原来我什么都不是，对吧？

Had weird dreams these few days.
Hm.. Not very bad dreams but.. the dreams are totally WEIRD.
Don't think it will ever happen in real life..
They are just too random.. >.<
Ish... Hope I won't have another weird dream again tonight.. =(


Well, I am done with my GS presentation!! 
Phewww!~~ Finally =)
and what's next??
ML bibliography, IDM video, IPD factsheet, IPD magazine, IPD video and IPD summary..
ML and IDM due on 21st May and IPD due on 24th May.
The best thing is, I DIDNT START ANYTHING YET!!
Call me SMART!! =( 
Have to show lecturer the IPD factsheet and the video storyboard and storyline..
Shit., I totally have no ideas how my video gonna be.. =(


I miss home..Although I only came back from my hometown last Sunday..=(
Not going back this week, and I don't think so I can go back next week as well, as there are so many assignments need to be done. =(
Owh. I miss everything in my hometown.. *crying*


I wish I can cry out loud and then have a good sleep..
But no!!!! Assignments are still there waiting for me!!
I HATE YOU ASSIGNMENTS!! *sob*

YOU

I HATE YOU!!!
I HATE YOU FOR I HATE YOU!!!!
YOU ARE SO FAKE!!
I WANT TO GIVE YOU A BIG TIGHT SLAP NOW!! 
YES!!!!RIGHT NOW!!!!
I DARE YOU TO STAND IN FRONT OF ME RIGHT NOW AND I WILL SLAP YOU LEFT AND RIGHT, UP AND DOWN AND THE CENTER!!!! COWARD!!!!
YES YOU!!! I AM TALKING ABOUT YOU COWARD!!!!!
I SWEAR I WILL SLAP YOU WHEN I SEE YOU FACE TO FACE!!!
I REALLY MEAN IT!! I SWEAR!!!!!

Happy Birthday Nicole

The phone is still remain silent..

Well.. I won't call anymore.. Since you're not going to pick up or call me back..

Anyways.. Had a great night with the girls.. 

And thanks you guys for accompany me back. Thanksss lot. ♥

From Left: Grace, Rhea, Yvonne, Ruth, Joanne, Nicole @ Snowflake

Nicole, Me and Grace @ Asian Cafe

AND....

HAPPY SWEET 19TH BIRTHDAY NICOLE ♥

Hope you enjoy the dinner. =)

Happy Birthday *muacks*

GS oh GS~~~

Kill me please.. =(

:'-(

My days

I AM FAT!!! =((

I really eat a lot these few days.. Eating non stop man.. 

I am growing sideway now.. =(

I need to diet, like SERIOUSLY!!!!

There goes my 1st week of classes in Taylor's Lakeside Campus..

The campus was fine but I the transportation sucks!!!

I hate that when I need to wake up so damn early in the morning everyday to wait the bus.

What make it worst is there are always so many students to take the shutter bus and I can't manage to squeeze myself into the 1st 2 buses. I will then have to spent another 20 mins to wait for another bus to come. Spending almost 30 mins  to wait the bus, and squeeze myself into the bus are really torturing. 

Don't expect those guys will be a bit gentleman. They will just step on your feet and cut the queue all just to make sure they are able to squeeze themselves in and get a sit or standing place in the bus, 

Human jam, I HATE!!!!

Ish.. Talking about this will just spoil my mood.

Well, lets not talk about those unhappy things. Lets talk about the moment I like =)

Had a fattening Thursday with the awesome people ♥

Had claypot lou xu fen and claypot rice as lunch with My big boss Kaven and Baby Jacintha.

Followed by subway and snowflakes as dinner and xiao long bao, asam sotong, 1 big bowl of rice and oh ah jian as supper with Sayang Yvonne, YC and SK.

Owh!!! Tell me how am I not going to put on weight with this kind of eating lifestyle?? *sigh*

Next time we don't order so much k?? We shall just order drinks and talk talk talk.. ahahha

It was a great outing with them. We talked, laughed and gossiped ♥

Yes, I LOVES gossip.. :P

Put aside the fattening food issue, how I wish I can have this kind of lifestyle everyday, without worry about my assignments and other things that make my head getting bigger and bigger!! *sob*

Anyway, it was nice to talked with them that night.. Thanks YC for the ride. All the best to you k? ♥

I am now in my home sweet home. Lying on my comfortable bed and enjoying the cold wind from the air con. Heheh.. Weather here is seriously very hot!!.. I can't tahan la.. At home also I can sweat like mad.. ishhh

Shopped in One Utama with my mum and younger brother the whole day.. My legs are very tired now, Yet, its nice ♥

Bought a black dress and a bag.. Yes!! Again I spent the money on the same things.  =p

What to do?? I just couldn't seems to resist the temptation of those dresses every time I see them. =(

Tried to control myself but.. Sigh.. Failed max.. That's why my purse is getting thinner and thinner. *cry*

Mix rice, Subway, Honeymoon and BBQ plaza for my day..♥

OH... Another fattening day.. =(

Reached home around 12.35am, and yeah.. Its already Saturday now..

How time flies huh... 

So many assignments to be done..

Feel so lazy la.. don't have the mood to do them at all!!!

Sigh.. I AM SO DEAD *cry*

I am craving for secret recipe cheese cake =(

当你想起这个我的时候，我想我已经心淡了

有没有发现我不再打电话给你 ？

有没有发现我不再发信息给你…… 有没有发现当你MSN在线，我不再会打扰你，而且偶尔恶做剧的故意弹你视频…… 这些都没有了吧，但并不代表我不爱你了，只是因为我发现了一件事，“你根本不需要我了！” 

但你没说,所以我每天都做了很多傻事…… 拿起手机,翻出你的手机号，看了很久，苦笑……又把手机按回原点，我想打给你，却怕你又说出:“我现在很忙,等下打给你噢”之后传来 “嘟嘟...”的声音.你不知道，电话这头的我有多失望.... 你说的等下，让我一直等。等到我都忘了你有多久没打电话来。

～ 手机里总是储存着写好的信息，但一直没发出去，因为你不会回……但我却总会等你回！所以，便干脆不发，发了只会是在自己的伤口上撒盐…… 

我～微笑着掩饰心里的痛 

你～微笑着蒙住我的双眼 把我丢弃 

我孤独背后的心痛,或许你从不曾看到……

在朋友的blog里看到的。
这短短一篇文章把我放在心里很久却没说出来的话全都写出来了。
或许...你不再需要我了吧

Outing with Jacintha

This outing was planned don't know how long ago..

Baby Jacintha keep calling me out with her when I was comfortably enjoying my holidays in my hometown..

Well, we managed to make it today as I no need to go college today. =)

Geetha was supposed to join us today.. But too bad.. She has things to do.. =(

SO, BBQ Plaza for our lunch. ♥

Something happened during the lunch..

I was in the restaurant eating while Jacintha went for the toilet.

Then, there is one black man came in to the restaurant and he stopped right beside me and he said : hello

I looked at him, confirmed that I don't know him, then I continued with my food, without bothering him at all.

He then keep standing beside me and keep saying "hello hello" to me.

It was so annoying.. I don't know what he wants. He went off at last..

After some times, he came back again.. Walked in to the restaurant and pretending he is looking for friends.

I think he is targeting those who eating alone in the restaurant, approach them and hope that he can eat there for free.. CRAZY!!!! 

After makan makan and talking talking, its SHOPPING time!♥

Hahhaha... Not really shopping la.. Jacintha wanted to shop for her mum mother's day present, so.. there we go.. =)

Instead of looking for her mum's clothe, we ended up looking for our clothes. *hehe*

Dress from TOPSHOP.. Super expensive lo..

Since we got no money to buy, so we just try for fun.. No need to pay also..  =P

Jacintha suggest to go snowflake..

It was pouring outside that time..

But we still go for it.. Eat ice in a cold weather = SUPER COLD!!

Hahaha.. 

I am super hungry now..

Sigh.. I wonder why am I always feel hungry at this time??

Sayang Yvonne is tempting me with burger in her sms!! Ishhh!!! I hate you!!!!!!

You this king of bully!!! HMPH!!!! Dont want to talk to you tomrrow!!! Blek!!!

BTW, I am eating my peanut biscuit now!! Fat!!! =((

The 1st day studying in Lakeside Campus..
Well..I am not that excited for it..

Air con seems not functioning well..
Its freaking hot the whole day..
Even in library also very hot..
I am sweating all the time.. =((

Look, this is what we do during our 8am lecture.. 

My sayang Yvonne's sock!!! so many lubang!! ahhaah

Zanne stay over our place tonight..

Talk and gossip with her and sayang Zhao Wern in her room..

Played with Zanne's Ipod.. 

Wow.. Me ♥ the games.. 

This bad Sayng Zhao Wern and Zanne, make me hungry at 12am..

Make me hungry ady then dun wan to eat burger with me =((

Ended up, I ate so many biscuits and Fruits.. 

See la. I ate this for my dinner.. Damn alot ok!!! 

Somemore i eat so many biscuits all..

So fat la..Ishhh

Shake shake shake

See this sayang, play the game until so excited.. hahaha

Ok.. Gossip session again in my room.. 

Me ♥..

Someone didn't wake me up in the morning...
Sigh.. See.. I knew it!!! Hmphhhhh

There goes my 2 weeks mid sem break..
Sigh..


I never feel excited to go back to Uni after the holidays..
Yeah, I miss my friends, but.. I really hate to remember those assignments that I need to complete within the limited time. =(
I was telling a friend of mine just now, If one day I tell you that I don't have assignments to do, it surely means that I am having my sweet holidays..
As long as my classes still going on, assignments will never end..

14 weeks on study, 12 assignments to be complete. Sigh.. 

I AM NOT THAT SMART

I started to miss my family already now.. Although they just left 3 hours ago..

I miss my hometown friends as well.. And I miss you too.. *sob*

Sigh..

Class at 8am tomorrow. and I have no choice but need to catch the 7am bus..

This obviously means that I will need to wake up very early to prepare myself, if I don't want to miss the bus. 

What time?? 5am? 6am?

Okay, I'll just set my alarm 6am..

Seriously, I am really so not used to waking up at 6am ever since I left my secondary school. 

Previously I always woke up around 6.45am for my 8am class. and I still managed to get in class just in time.. Ok, maybe sometimes late abit..

But now.. Sigh.. No choice la.. My Uni has moved. and its no longer walking distance from the place I stay..

Okay, shall set my alarm now, shut down my laptop, off the lights and GOODNIGHT!

Its already Sunday now..
Argh!!! I hate!!!
I don't want to go back to PJ!!
I don't want to do my assignments!! =((


I was so used to stay in my comfort zone for the past 2 weeks..
Do whatever I want to.
Sleep whenever I feel sleepy
Wake up whenever I feel like waking up (even its 2 o'clock in the afternoon) ;p


2 weeks of holidays are definitely NOT ENOUGH!!
Not to mention all the assignments that I am supposed to complete during this mid sem break.
I really didn't touch any of my assignments since last Thursday after I submit my GS annotated assignment. 
Instead, I watched drama like crazy..
2 days, and I managed to finished the whole drama with 3 disc. 
I am so dead! *crying*


Pimples are popping out like the stars in the sky due to my sleeping time..
Of course, I believe my eyes side is getting worst as well..(Spent my days in front of laptop to watch drama all the time). Sigh


Sigh.. I don't want to leave my hometown..
I don't want to go back to PJ..
I don't want to study in Lakeside campus..
I don't want!!!*shouting* 


Can I have more holiday please??? *sob*